Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ok, ive heard that seeing girls u go to school with isnt the best thing to do,but approaching and meeting girls in some places (ie mall or store) for me seems hard, its like i need an excuse to talk to her, like its inapprotriate to approach, to me it always seemed like something 20-35 year olds did in bars/clubs, and even if i did i wouldnt know what to say to actually start a conversation that lasts longer than "hey howsitgoin, good you?, good" any help? thanks (and yes i know i need to grow some balls)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lmao:p james bond yea right j/p bro go read the bible it will be much easier that way
 
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well if your isolized from reading the bible do the next best thing go to www.sosuave.com click on one of the letters in the right then once your on that page look to your left for hall of fame and there is alot of stuff that will help you out on growing some balls i suggest reading from the beginning and good luck it's like 200 post so don't try reading it all at once. happy reading;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I read in the DJ Bible somewhere to keep up with current events etc... I now do, and believe me it works. If you just become more aware of the world around you (local, global) and get over the fear of saying something wrong you'll be able to keep a up conversation. No ones perfect so don't get all "Oh ****, she thinks im a loser now" when you say something stupid. You don't need her approval anyway.

Say your in a mall. Spot something and ask the chick about it. Another thing from the bible. Try to start your questions with Who, what, when, where, why, and how. Aviod yes/no questions. You get her talking more taking the pressure off of you to come up with new things to talk about.


Just read the DJ Bible man. Theres a whole section devoted to conversations.
 
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