The last woman I dated, I had met through social media outlets. Usually I tend to sometimes contact women on FB if we share the same mutual friends. I did so with this last woman, so obviously she didn't have a problem with it...and actually, it was the fact that we DID know the same people that so inclined her to date me.
I was talking to a regular female friend about her and how we met. And she said that she hates it when guys do that with her friends on her friends list and had asked me not to do it to her friends.
So obviously, I wasn't the ONLY male friend that tried to make nice with her other friends on Facebook, but it's the information age where we're out there, so ...why not?
She said she knows I'm an okay guy and all (because she knows me), but she does not recommend it...that it's creepy. She said you can do what you want, but still...creepy.
I rather argued that I thought the mutual friend thing kind of helped it along, because you at least you know the same people, but just haven't met yet.
I mean, if it worked for me...then yeah...cool, it worked. But it's just an opinion right? Depends on who you ask?
I was talking to a regular female friend about her and how we met. And she said that she hates it when guys do that with her friends on her friends list and had asked me not to do it to her friends.
So obviously, I wasn't the ONLY male friend that tried to make nice with her other friends on Facebook, but it's the information age where we're out there, so ...why not?
She said she knows I'm an okay guy and all (because she knows me), but she does not recommend it...that it's creepy. She said you can do what you want, but still...creepy.
I rather argued that I thought the mutual friend thing kind of helped it along, because you at least you know the same people, but just haven't met yet.
I mean, if it worked for me...then yeah...cool, it worked. But it's just an opinion right? Depends on who you ask?