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Meeting her friends/friend

Alpheta

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I met my gf today outside a religious event she was attending with her mates I haven't met before.

Well I saw her for half an hour and then she wanted me to see one of her best friends.

I don't know why but I kinda got nervous. Nonetheless I met her and I don't know but I keep feeling the meet up with her friend went awkward or that I just didn't demonstrate my alphaness well enough.

I mean my girl was all lovey dovey with me but after I left she hasn't texted.

The convo went something like this :

Gf: hey this is my BF *vice versa* isn't he 5"9 (jokingly. I'm not 5"9 but she banter)

Me: lol as Long as I'm taller than her (gf) I'm good.

Her friend: Do you like her banter?

Me: she's brave when her friends are around. You should see her when she's alone with me lol.

Me: (to her friend) I've heard lots of good things about you, good things. She (gf) looks up to you (lol!)

^ that was lol but awkward as her and her friend laughed but I knew my gf didn't like that.

I tell the two of them i need to leave (I genuinely did) so I walk off saying nice to meet you and her friend jokingly says " dont hurt her otherwise I'll beat you up" I laugh whilst walking away.

Now I don't know but maybe I'm analysing the whole alpha thing too much but since then my gf has not texted. Usually she would but yea.

I say something wrong? Her friend didn't like me? Or alpheta overthinking ?

Lol
 

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Fireballs

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Overthinking it. But be warned - Her friends have the ability to poison your gf's mind against you.
 

Alpheta

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Whats really killing me and i know its prob overthinking on my part but when her friend said ' ill beat u up if you dont treat her well' i should have said something witty but i just laughed it off whilst walking off. I mean did that test me?
 

Yewki

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Whats really killing me and i know its prob overthinking on my part but when her friend said ' ill beat u up if you dont treat her well' i should have said something witty but i just laughed it off whilst walking off. I mean did that test me?
You're totally overthinking it. That is the real test and so far you're failing it.
 

Armourhead

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Overthinking it. But be warned - Her friends have the ability to poison your gf's mind against you.
In my experience her friend's opinions don't really matter.

On the one hand if you are that alpha badass she wants she isn't going to give a **** about what her friends think of you.
If you're a beta loser though, likewise she won't care about how all of her friends think shes nuts for breaking your heart, because she just isn't attracted.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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