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She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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Meeting girls studying in college libraries

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Quick little post, since I'm working a 12 hour shift, forcing upon me long hours of homework, sosuave, and Califonication until I'm off.

Meeting girls in college libraries; what are your experiences?

My own technique is to simply sit near them, and strike up a conversation. The opener can be anything, I usually go for whatever they're studying.

I've also gone direct if I see a compelling enough girl to chase after, and I'll tell her that: "I saw you walk by, and I had to chase you down before you wandered off ".

I'll use either one, whichever is most relevant at the time.

And I don't go to the school, but I usually get away with just saying that I like their library, and that I can't study at home because it's too noisy during the day as well as at night (drunk ass kids in the dorms).

Anyone else have any experience, stories of success and failure?
 

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