Meeting a absolute honest hoe

[Baibars]

There is this young trashy girl I matched with on hinge.
She’s young, slim and has brown hair blue eyes.
I was also attracted to her character because it was just fun talking to her.
She wasn’t annoying and hard to deal with just easy going.

We met the same day. Made up a little bit and that’s it.

BUT during our talk she openly said that she sleeps around and loves it.
She wanted to be open towards me meeting and having sex with multiple guys. I was a little bit shocked I mean yeah we know women do that but her telling me that openly was weird.

Next week there is a potential second date where I could sleep with her, but I don’t know even though I have other girls on the side, there feels something off with this one.
The girls I am talking to usually are not that crazy and I don’t know if they are they don’t tell me. They basically behave like normal women.

With this one, I initially felt the attraction, but I also feel somehow repulsed by her sleeping around and giving me some appointment for my turn you know what I mean?

She’s a nice person.
It’s cool talking to her, but I don’t know it could be due to my values something just makes me angry about her like I don’t like what she does at all with all these men even though I 100% know that I would never want to get in a relationship with her.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Wrap it before you tap it

 

[Divorced w 3]

This is a you issue not a her issue.

What do you mean second date. Stop spending money taking her out if you pursue. She literally gave you the playbook. Invite her over if you see her again.

By no means do you have unprotected sex with her.

 

[Clockwerk50]

You’re attracted to her because she presents a contradiction: sexually open, emotionally relaxed, and disarmingly honest. That mix of traits, fun but reckless, lighthearted but raw, creates ambiguity.

People are drawn to others who seem like they have layers because the mind is wired to want to resolve ambiguity. When someone sends mixed signals, it creates cognitive tension. The brain instinctively seeks patterns and closure, so when someone is both open and distant, pure and wild, good and bad, it kicks your curiosity into overdrive. You start projecting depth onto them, assuming there's more to uncover. I mean, it even has me questioning if she is really telling the truth or if it might be part of her game.

This psychological pull can be stronger than attraction to someone who seems consistent or predictable, because mystery keeps the imagination engaged, and that imagination fuels desire.

Thankfully, you are not bonded to her yet, so if you choose to not continue with your courtship, it will be easier to stop talking to her now than later on down the line.

 

[Bokanovsky]

She wanted to be open towards me meeting and having sex with multiple guys.

She wants you to meet and have sex with multiple guys?? Perhaps something is being lost in translation here...

 

[Baibars]

She wants you to meet and have sex with multiple guys?? Perhaps something is being lost in translation here...

oh sorry I mean her meeting

 

[Desdinova]

Add her to the harem. You might have fun. She may be fun to talk with, but she's also using that mouth for another man's d1ck when you're not around. Just remember not to get emotionally attached. I'd personally see it as a challenge to fvck her in all the ways other dudes wouldn't and then toss her if she gets too attached.

 

[Pandora]

Bro I would leave her alone if you dont have the mental strength. I have a weakness for crazy sluts so I get attached to them if they are hot.

This girl has some form of personality disorder most likely. That aint normal. She is full of trauma. You kinda dont want to get mixed up with that. Easier said than done.

 

[plumber]

she wants to be a plate. for now. is that your goal also?

 

[Glassguy]

You're attracted to her "character"?
Maybe you like her personality, but her character seems trash.
She's a nice person? Where did you get that from? By her being honest that she is a hoe?
Dude it seems like your standards are in the tank......

 

[BadBoy89]

With this one, I initially felt the attraction, but I also feel somehow repulsed by her sleeping around and giving me some appointment for my turn you know what I mean?

If she didn't give you an appointment, you'd be OK ?

 

[Solomon]

BUT during our talk she openly said that she sleeps around and loves it.
She wanted to be open towards me meeting and having sex with multiple guys. I was a little bit shocked I mean yeah we know women do that but her telling me that openly was weird.

This is what happens when there are no consequences, shame nor accountability in modern day women engaging in whorish behavior. This type of interaction is not unusual at all for a hoe on a dating app. I have had women tell me the same thing, these women know they have options and want to have fun getting ran through, usually they are either young, just recently out of a relationship or marriage. Or It could be they enjoy being hoes. Then what happens is that when she wants to settle down, she will. I do not take these women seriously, and neither should you. Be careful though STD's are real

When a woman tells you who she is right away belive her(I'm not talking about a girl claiming to be good, you judge those by their actions I'm talking about a woman who tells you she is a hoe/thot or slut), any woman who tells you off bat she is a hoe/thot/renegade is saving you time of vetting her and thus you should move accordingly and never treat her seriously. To many guys deal with thots and hoes and give them wifey treatment taking them on dinner dates(especially on a first date), meanwhile she is getting her back blown out after the date by @Divorced w 3 or @BPH after the date

Next week there is a potential second date where I could sleep with her, but I don’t know even though I have other girls on the side, there feels something off with this one.
The girls I am talking to usually are not that crazy and I don’t know if they are they don’t tell me. They basically behave like normal women.

With this one, I initially felt the attraction, but I also feel somehow repulsed by her sleeping around and giving me some appointment for my turn you know what I mean?

She’s a nice person.
It’s cool talking to her, but I don’t know it could be due to my values something just makes me angry about her like I don’t like what she does at all with all these men even though I 100% know that I would never want to get in a relationship with her.

You already catching feelings for a hoe?, and the something is "off" is red flag behavior it's your intuition telling you to stay away from this thot. It's your subconscious warning you that this woman is no good. Any woman that openly and proudly tells you she is a thot, usually has lack of self-control or self-awarnesss at the least or dealing with mental illness. Why are you mad that she is telling you, she is a hoe when you're spinning other plates on the side? do you really think a woman is going to be waiting for you like a good girl at home sewing a new dress and not talking to other men while you're going on other dates.? A lot of you have been foolishly brainwashed by red pill podcasts that told you that women are cool with men cheating as long as he's high value. Did you guys not see what happened to Jeff Bezos, or what's happening to Shannon Sharpe right now? In 2025 these women are going on multiple dates a week, sometimes a day. These women have different FWBS. I remember last year I went on a date and the woman told me she had 2 FWBS. These women especially on dating apps are damaged and emotionally unavailable because she is getting stuffed with **** by the guy she wants but the guy she wants is only treating her like a *****, and thus she is looking for someone to treat her seriosuly. You are repulsed because you know she is engaging in "streetwalker" behavior, but you are willing to engage with her because she is "hawt" a tale as old as time

I do not judge women like this I actually secretly thank them for being upfront and cutting through the B.S.! If you're looking to have fun and you met her of a dating app you would be a fool to think that women who use dating apps are quality women. Most women on dating apps are concubines, meaning they are not wifey or girlfriend material. A lot of those women just want to enjoy the ****-buffett. The prettier she is on a dating app the more of a redflag it is. Pretty women have social circles in real life, pretty women have sutiors. Any pretty woman I know personally on a dating app is usually because they are major hoes, who are not taken seriously by men who know them. But on a dating app she can "Reinvent" herself and no one knows her HOEstory

I will say this I respect her at least for being hoenst as most women will feign that they are "Good girls" or ladies but are *****s who are dating several men and put you in a box. The fact that she told you right away should let you know what type of time she is on, and you should move accordingly or walk away!

 

[Divorced w 3]

This is what happens when there are no consequences, shame nor accountability in modern day women engaging in whorish behavior. This type of interaction is not unusual at all for a hoe on a dating app. I have had women tell me the same thing, these women know they have options and want to have fun getting ran through, usually they are either young, just recently out of a relationship or marriage. Or It could be they enjoy being hoes. Then what happens is that when she wants to settle down, she will. I do not take these women seriously, and neither should you. Be careful though STD's are real

When a woman tells you who she is right away belive her(I'm not talking about a girl claiming to be good, you judge those by their actions I'm talking about a woman who tells you she is a hoe/thot or slut), any woman who tells you off bat she is a hoe/thot/renegade is saving you time of vetting her and thus you should move accordingly and never treat her seriously. To many guys deal with thots and hoes and give them wifey treatment taking them on dinner dates(especially on a first date), meanwhile she is getting her back blown out after the date by @Divorced w 3 or @BPH after the date



You already catching feelings for a hoe?, and the something is "off" is red flag behavior it's your intuition telling you to stay away from this thot. It's your subconscious warning you that this woman is no good. Any woman that openly and proudly tells you she is a thot, usually has lack of self-control or self-awarnesss at the least or dealing with mental illness. Why are you mad that she is telling you, she is a hoe when you're spinning other plates on the side? do you really think a woman is going to be waiting for you like a good girl at home sewing a new dress and not talking to other men while you're going on other dates.? A lot of you have been foolishly brainwashed by red pill podcasts that told you that women are cool with men cheating as long as he's high value. Did you guys not see what happened to Jeff Bezos, or what's happening to Shannon Sharpe right now? In 2025 these women are going on multiple dates a week, sometimes a day. These women have different FWBS. I remember last year I went on a date and the woman told me she had 2 FWBS. These women especially on dating apps are damaged and emotionally unavailable because she is getting stuffed with **** by the guy she wants but the guy she wants is only treating her like a *****, and thus she is looking for someone to treat her seriosuly. You are repulsed because you know she is engaging in "streetwalker" behavior, but you are willing to engage with her because she is "hawt" a tale as old as time

I do not judge women like this I actually secretly thank them for being upfront and cutting through the B.S.! If you're looking to have fun and you met her of a dating app you would be a fool to think that women who use dating apps are quality women. Most women on dating apps are concubines, meaning they are not wifey or girlfriend material. A lot of those women just want to enjoy the ****-buffett. The prettier she is on a dating app the more of a redflag it is. Pretty women have social circles in real life, pretty women have sutiors. Any pretty woman I know personally on a dating app is usually because they are major hoes, who are not taken seriously by men who know them. But on a dating app she can "Reinvent" herself and no one knows her HOEstory

I will say this I respect her at least for being hoenst as most women will feign that they are "Good girls" or ladies but are *****s who are dating several men and put you in a box. The fact that she told you right away should let you know what type of time she is on, and you should move accordingly or walk away!

It ain’t nothing personal believe me

 

[Pandora]

This is what happens when there are no consequences, shame nor accountability in modern day women engaging in whorish behavior. This type of interaction is not unusual at all for a hoe on a dating app. I have had women tell me the same thing, these women know they have options and want to have fun getting ran through, usually they are either young, just recently out of a relationship or marriage. Or It could be they enjoy being hoes. Then what happens is that when she wants to settle down, she will. I do not take these women seriously, and neither should you. Be careful though STD's are real

When a woman tells you who she is right away belive her(I'm not talking about a girl claiming to be good, you judge those by their actions I'm talking about a woman who tells you she is a hoe/thot or slut), any woman who tells you off bat she is a hoe/thot/renegade is saving you time of vetting her and thus you should move accordingly and never treat her seriously. To many guys deal with thots and hoes and give them wifey treatment taking them on dinner dates(especially on a first date), meanwhile she is getting her back blown out after the date by @Divorced w 3 or @BPH after the date



You already catching feelings for a hoe?, and the something is "off" is red flag behavior it's your intuition telling you to stay away from this thot. It's your subconscious warning you that this woman is no good. Any woman that openly and proudly tells you she is a thot, usually has lack of self-control or self-awarnesss at the least or dealing with mental illness. Why are you mad that she is telling you, she is a hoe when you're spinning other plates on the side? do you really think a woman is going to be waiting for you like a good girl at home sewing a new dress and not talking to other men while you're going on other dates.? A lot of you have been foolishly brainwashed by red pill podcasts that told you that women are cool with men cheating as long as he's high value. Did you guys not see what happened to Jeff Bezos, or what's happening to Shannon Sharpe right now? In 2025 these women are going on multiple dates a week, sometimes a day. These women have different FWBS. I remember last year I went on a date and the woman told me she had 2 FWBS. These women especially on dating apps are damaged and emotionally unavailable because she is getting stuffed with **** by the guy she wants but the guy she wants is only treating her like a *****, and thus she is looking for someone to treat her seriosuly. You are repulsed because you know she is engaging in "streetwalker" behavior, but you are willing to engage with her because she is "hawt" a tale as old as time

I do not judge women like this I actually secretly thank them for being upfront and cutting through the B.S.! If you're looking to have fun and you met her of a dating app you would be a fool to think that women who use dating apps are quality women. Most women on dating apps are concubines, meaning they are not wifey or girlfriend material. A lot of those women just want to enjoy the ****-buffett. The prettier she is on a dating app the more of a redflag it is. Pretty women have social circles in real life, pretty women have sutiors. Any pretty woman I know personally on a dating app is usually because they are major hoes, who are not taken seriously by men who know them. But on a dating app she can "Reinvent" herself and no one knows her HOEstory

I will say this I respect her at least for being hoenst as most women will feign that they are "Good girls" or ladies but are *****s who are dating several men and put you in a box. The fact that she told you right away should let you know what type of time she is on, and you should move accordingly or walk away!

Yeh its true. Pretty women on dating sites is a not a good sign. They usually ran through their real life options.