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meet girl, text, no reply, what now? (short text so reply)

napoleon

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Ok I met this girl friday and we danced for about 45 min, had a gr8 time (laughing, grinding, kinoing...) I told her: "Hey you could give me your number!"(not with a question mark) to which she said "Yes, I could". I gave her my cell and she wrote her number in.
Today, 2 days later I send a text message "Hey (Name), guess who is this". Now I have no reply. I'm thinking I'll call her monday and again tuesday,and if she doesn't pick up I'll next. Now I know you will say you should have called her but I gotta tell you something about myself. I HATE telephones, I hate talking on them, even with my parents and best friends (I'm a visual type of guy and need to SEE the other person , and the other person needs to see me).


What would you do in my place? Do you agree with my plan?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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lol, i personally don't text much, but if i got a text from an unkown # that only said "guess who this is" I would be creeped out and wouldn't reply. I'm gathering from your story that you didn't give your phone #, so she doesn't know who texted her.

Try giving her a call, make a playful joke about the sms and see what she says.
 

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No I didn't give her my number (I have BAD experiences) , and I too dont reply to unknown numbers, but only dont talk to unknown numbers , I text whoever calls me. You guys got something playful I could say?

Maybe-"You used me, I feel so violated, lets meet and discuss it"

Than again, maybe not.
 

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OK she replied so thread CLOSED.
 
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