"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Me and my big ****ing mouth

Dan08

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Drunkenly told an ex Fwb old work place were hiring and she's only gone and got a ****ing trial shift. She was hitting me up for the tips for the interview and I was like **** this ****.

What makes it worse is that I'm on good terms with the manager and I really didn't want anything to do with this girl after I ****ed her but she's getting into my social circle.

Serves me right I guess
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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latinnova

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Ya man, mistake is on you. Just learn from it. I have 2 plates that every once and a while ask if my job is hiring, I always tell them no, even though we are hiring exactly what she is qualified to do. I could never put myself in that position.
 

IBreatheSpears

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Talk to your manager and make her look bad. Subtlety is key though, you don't want to sound like a jealous ex boyfriend.

You: So I heard <ex's name> applied for <job>? What did you think about her? She and I used to date but it didn't work out because she wanted to party all the time whereas I'm more of a homebody, but we're on pretty good terms. There's a little tension still but, you know, time heals all wounds.

Manager's now thinking that she's a potential liability because of the awkwardness between you two creating a negative work environment and because employers generally don't favour people who "party all the time".

p.s. heheh
 
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