me (19) trying to date/hit 22 year old VIRGIN. HELP!

[rawsync]

whatsup to all don juans and them nasty studs, lol.


i have been friends with this 21 year old for about a year who has a really hot 22 year old roomate. in last month we hung out twice and really had a great time together. i really think she has just awesome personality and her body is banging as well. well on last tuesday i called her and asked her that we go out on saturday and that i'll pick her up around 9. on saturday i called around 6 and confirmed it. went there at 9 n we went bowling. i was making her laugh, throwing my c&f comments al lthe time. after 5 games of bowling we headed back to her place that i drop her off. i asked to come in to get a glass of water... after i drank it she didnt invite me so i gave her a hug, kiss on the cheek and left.

she called me yesterday afternoon to go studying to barnes n nobles n we went there n had great time again. she told me how she had great time last nite n how her cheeks were hurting from laughing.

now, my quesiton to you guys is: do you think that i did anything wrong or that i should have done something that i didnt? how could i have taken initiative to stay at her place without her invitation? what should i do next? i'm a 19 year old virgin and i dated plenty of girls but i never came by a cool chick like this and id love to date her or even be in a long term relationship. i just dont know what to say or ask her so that we start dating or being in a relatipnship. please help guys with any comments or go ahead and flame me.

 

[sfalexi]

End the date a little earlier, don't get water but get coffee or some snack to eat in the apartment. Sit on the couch and allow her to sit next to you while you continue to talk and have fun (maybe throw on the TV or something). Then use the 'closeness' that you have. You're already in the apartment, it's already understood you'll be there for a little bit. So those obstacles are no longer there.

Alexi

 

[spidersense]

it sounds like things are going pretty well, just make sure that you're not beeing too needy. you're not calling her all the time or looking for every oportunity to be with her. don't come off as desperate or make it look like you see her as being on a pedistal 20 feet high

 

[rawsync]

Originally posted by sfalexi
End the date a little earlier, don't get water but get coffee or some snack to eat in the apartment. Sit on the couch and allow her to sit next to you while you continue to talk and have fun (maybe throw on the TV or something). Then use the 'closeness' that you have. You're already in the apartment, it's already understood you'll be there for a little bit. So those obstacles are no longer there.

Alexi

thanks for the response. yeah next time ill sit down and turn on the tv. and ask her to make some hot chocolate, we both love it

Originally posted by spidersense
it sounds like things are going pretty well, just make sure that you're not beeing too needy. you're not calling her all the time or looking for every oportunity to be with her. don't come off as desperate or make it look like you see her as being on a pedistal 20 feet high

yeah they are going pretty well, i'm not being too needy at all. i call her once a week or twice at the most.