"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe you can meet my friends this time

pvf94

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Is this a bad thing if a girl you have went out with a few times wants you to meet her friends?

She also mentioned that I could possibly meet her cousin "that is in love with me".......her cousin saw my myspace and said I was hot.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sounds awesome.

This chick may not be into you but she's hooking you up with her cousin who is.

Well its awesome so long as her cousin isn't an ug or a fattie lol.
 

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pvf94 said:
Is this a bad thing if a girl you have went out with a few times wants you to meet her friends?

She also mentioned that I could possibly meet her cousin "that is in love with me".......her cousin saw my myspace and said I was hot.
How could this be bad? Is her cousin a homo? Would you introduce your friends to someone you don't like?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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I think she's probably trying to dump you with someone else because she's too nice to say she's not into you. She obviously likes you though (as a person) so you'll be getting a positive reference to help your chances..
 

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hmmmmm, im interested in her not her cousin. Well see how it goes, I was thinking it can't be that bad.

I also think she uses her cousin as a prop to say "My cousin thinks your hot". And I said to her "So what your reallying saying is im hot". She laughed and said whateverrrrrr


and her cousin is an ug/ hb 3. HAhaha
 

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Bump

Also how do you act around her friends ? Im thinking you can do yourself alot of good because when you aren't around they will most likely talk about you.
 
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