Mastering Jealousy

[DJsparky]

I'm just wondering what you guys have done to master jealousy so you are no longer a slave to the machine.

Distraction always helps me. I do feel jealous when i get in relationships so this is why i am asking because i think to master jealousy and overcome that barrier is the key to succeeding.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

The person who cares the least has the most control. Don't let yourself fall into the mode of "I have to know what she is doing at all times".

Equally, do things that you don't tell her about. You don't have to cheat, but go out with friends, maybe even flirt a little. The fact that you are doing it may make you feel paranoia that she is doing it too, but if you don't care, then it wont create jealousy and in turn wont control you.

 

[Five To One]

The quick fix is to go out and flirt with girls. Maybe even get a number or two. Take it to the point where you feel your girlfriend would not be happy with you if she would find out. But heres the last part to remember. Don't let her find out. This is not something you do if a friend of hers is nearby. The point of this is to make you less jelous; not you less jealous and her more jealous.


If you want to truely overcome jealousy then you have to be 100% alright with your girlfriend leaving you at any point because you know you will make it without her just fine. Thats kinda hard to do. No matter how much I say I have control over my emotions, I would be a little distressed if a girlfriend who I cared about broke up with me. And since I would be distressed if she left me, it would be more than possible for her to make me jealous at times.

Its all innergame

edit: guywhoneedshelp has a pretty good post