"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Massive AFC or not? LOL

st_99

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I'll go with about as AFC as it gets. Giving up your career over
some young vag, thats like puppy dog sh!t. Not to mention about 1:1000
chance of lasting over 2 years. btw, i'm not saying banging an 18 yo is bad, sh*t, i'd bang her too but to make it a major life event, come on.




March 1, 2012 (WPVI) -- A 41-year-old high school teacher in Modesto, California has quit his job so he could move in with a student.

James Hooker has known 18-year-old Jordan Powers since she was a freshman. He says he and Powers are just following their hearts.

The teen's mother, Tammy Powers, believes that even though her daughter turned 18 in September, Hooker broke the law by pursuing her when she was 17.

Tammy Powers explains, "James Hooker has been texting Jordan over the summer. I do have concrete proof of that. There were text messages back and forth  as a minor. On the first day of school there was a phone call. I do have proof of that. That's pursuit in my opinion."

The mother also says while she was away last week, Hooker came into her home and moved her daughter's things out.

The pair says they will talk to reporters soon.


http://abclocal.go.com/wpvi/story?section=news/national_world&id=8564554
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I bet he'll have a good time and it will certainly be better than teaching. Good luck to him...
 

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40 year old quits his job to date an 18 year old? A teacher who doesn't understand or care that he'll most likely ruin this girls life because he as a 40 year old and her as an 18 year old have just decided to 'follow their hearts'.

I guess he figures he can mold her into his 'dream' girl.

I can guarantee the girl's father isn't in her life and he's the 'daddy' 'teacher' figure. That teacher is pathetic. Guess it's pretty rough to land a woman in California with a teachers job these days.
 

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I heard about this story this morning. What's worse, the guy has a 17-year-old daughter. He bailed on his family and broke his daughter's heart just so that he can "follow" his....all under the illusion that this 18-year-old will somehow help him relive his youth. Of course, in all his euphoria, he hasn't taken into account how fickle an 18-year-old is, or the fact that once the utopian novelty wears off, she'll just see him as an old guy.

The guy's a truly stupid mothertrucker who can't see the forest for the trees. And yes, I'm judging.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Maybe he was planning on quitting anyway?

Heaps of people I've worked with were ex-teachers. They do it for a few years then realise they can make more money elsewhere..
 

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ATX1001 said:
Maybe he was planning on quitting anyway?

Heaps of people I've worked with were ex-teachers. They do it for a few years then realise they can make more money elsewhere..

Mr. Hooker will be 2012's Joey Buttafuoco. Ay Yo! Buttafuoco!
 
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