"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Huffman

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Okay point taken... I just have an aversion against guys who pose shirtless on facebook :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In my opinion, Karate applied properly in a self defence situation should look more like this (apart from this being a very entertaining video because Bas is a bit of a comedian) :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D3K-mrlYG7Y

A lot of the kind of moves Bas does here are actually kata moves. It shows them actually effectively applied.

The trouble with a lot of karate schools is they teach all this rubbish about simultaneously blocking two punches from two different attackers, and walking into kicks and so forth.

For example - lets take the basic first move of "Kihon" - step to the left and downward block. Do we SERIOUSLY think that this is a kick block? No, it's a strike to the groin. That's what I meant earlier in the thread about Karate being widely mis-taught.

Don't underestimate Karate. It has been carefully worked out and tested. But the Americanisation of it and watering down of it in competitions has led to it being disrespected.

Do we seriously think that Bas could use any of these moves in a competition? He'd get disqualified immediately.

Having said that, he then goes into groundwork in the second bit of the video which is not Karate, but the first bit definitely shows some of the Kata applications that I've learnt. And that's in Shotokan, which is very widely disrespected.
 

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And no, in proper Karate it is not encouraged to "Chamber" the other hand when throwing punches. That leaves you wide open. The "Chamber" acheives two things (that I can think of) :

It is in fact a backwards elbow. Each time you chamber, it is practise for elbowing an attacker grabbing you from behind.

It is grabbing the person and pulling them on to you while punching so they can't ride the punch.

Also - the long stance. It is not encouraged to fight like that. The reason we take a long stance is simply exercise for the legs. It is assumed that if you can build speed with a long stance, then when you shorten the stance your legs are very explosive. Similar to when runners practise with weights on their legs.

This is why we have "Freestyle" stance. Freestyle allows you to shorten your leg stance and put up a guard. Any instructor that does not encourage also practising like this is not worth their salt.

I hope that dispels a few Karate "myths".
 
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