"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Marriage/Relationships -- Constant Sex Rejection Leads To...

Sexplicite

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Cheating?

How true is this?

I've read from different authors that when one is constantly rejected for wanting sex -- That can mentally lead that person to think otherwise about their partner and lead to cheating or ending the relationship for good.


(For some men -- Sex is their way to feel loved by their woman.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJnomore

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Kinda Like.....

When a guy loses his job and sits around and crys about it all day.....I have heard that leads to women cheating or leaving too...
 

biker_gixxer

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Originally posted by Sexplicite
Cheating?

How true is this?

I've read from different authors that when one is constantly rejected for wanting sex -- That can mentally lead that person to think otherwise about their partner and lead to cheating or ending the relationship for good.


(For some men -- Sex is their way to feel loved by their woman.)
If my woman doesn't want to give me any, I will def. look elsewhere, it's that simple.
 

WaterTiger

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Originally posted by Sexplicite
I've read from different authors that when one is constantly rejected for wanting sex -- That can mentally lead that person to think otherwise about their partner and lead to cheating or ending the relationship for good.

To this, I can only reply....

DUH!!!!!
 
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