"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man why she keeps stressin a brother out

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How come that when you have a serious girlfriend(or atleast u think u do) everything goes all good and stuff, but after a few months she just keep getting mad about 100 percent and pure bs, im tired of this bs man if she doesnt get mad for some total bs, shell say slick ish to get me to argue, or shell find the smallest little detail to start an argument or just get mad without u even knowing it.

It use to be me getting mad but after i found this site and whatnot i fixed my habits, and now its her, its like she has to have some drama with me, like she likes to argue , and dig into dirt of the smallest to make a dilema or some tension between us.

Im really tired of this bs
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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either ignore it and play along, or next time she does it call her out
 

TizZle

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Put your foot down maybe ? Player Supreme posted something good about this subject but i can't remember what thread it was.
 

Centaurion

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me thinks you are a troll.

you've been spamming the forums with this same kinda crap.

but whatever.
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
me thinks you are a troll.

you've been spamming the forums with this same kinda crap.

but whatever.
huh?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Black Panther®

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So just cause im a brotha' i dont belong in sosuave? so what i am black and im proud of being black, you got a problem with that? man i cant believe that there is still such people in this world still.
Why the racism? i posted something that aint got nothing to do about me being a brotha or not.
 

Centaurion

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it's not that.

the attitude of the people at pimphop.com are different from here at sosuave. if you want to know how to put that chick in 'place' and play her so she won't know what hit her, you might want to check out that site.

thats all there is to it. nothing racial.
 

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afc.com, perfect place for a whiteboy lol
I guess the pimphop site is more assertive

it's just out of ignorance man don't take it seriously BlackPanther
 

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dude i think she's bored and she's tryna just pick fights with ya because it gets her off or whateva... i do the the same, in a matter of words... i go out picking out subjects and whatnot to debate about... happens when im really bored... i think she's tryna see if you'll compete with her or not... so play along and see =)


or you can take her out for an action date, maybe then she'll calm the fcuk up
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She is trying to change you because she doesn't accept you for the way you are. My suggestion is to bail out but you can try to make her understand your point of view... Good luck!
 

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It use to be me getting mad but after i found this site and whatnot i fixed my habits,

Nice work, you've taken the first step. Now, the next step is to dump her a$$. If she's working your nerves so bad, why are you sticking around? If you haven't put your foot down yet, she'll continue to piss you off until you do or until you leave. Either way, don't put up with it any longer.
 
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