"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Making Your MOVES @ the MOVIES

Badmannaz

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girl i'm dating right now i told her we are going to the movies to see a Drama...
i've NEVER took a girl to the movies who wasn't my friend...i usually have tooken girls to resteraunts in music outing etc...well this time im pulling my DJ card and im going for the cake...:rockon: i will FR on this when it goes down..

objective: getting her in the mood so i can get her to take me home w/ her and do the twist:woo::yes:

goals making enough moves during the movies to have her in "wet" mode!!


gameplan

when we 1st get in the movies i was planning on jus chilling talking to her till movie starts...she really likes me and wants me (even over all other guys) so im gonna be looking in her eyes telling her she's beatiful all that..holding hand into the movies is what i plan on doing also...so the movies in effect and by this time i will probably call my Friend and walk out the movie (girls don't like this) but i will use this to come back up and get closer to her...now sitting in closer im holding her in my hands in a position were we are both comfortable let some good amount of time go by....

i have other things i might do but my question to you guys is what have you done that works?? should i go for the kiss?? and any other info that would work in this situation..and any other clever things that might work

i'ved searched the board for threads like this but found none...so help me out guys!!! :woo:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Badmannaz

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thx there's a movie we're going to c you kno...it's that thing..plus i'm going over to her place afterwards anyway....hehehe:cool: i have to disagree the movies i think are pretty good especially when your trying to connect

but anyguys got any help on the matter?
 

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Espi said:
Kissing her in the theatre's not good, IMO...girls are unpredictable in public places...you never know how she'll react...if she rejects you, you've gotta sit there 2-3 hours...not good.

good point.

try the 2 steps forward, 1 step back thing if ur goin to the movies.

without a word, rub your hand over hers and squeeze gently. leave it there for about 5 mins, then take it back and continue watching the movie. dont look at her the whole time, let her mind fill in the blanks.
 

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buy a tub of popcorn, cut a hole in the bottom and put your penis through the hole. Offer her some popcorn and there you have it!
 

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Skel said:
buy a tub of popcorn, cut a hole in the bottom and put your penis through the hole. Offer her some popcorn and there you have it!
Hahaha.:rockon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The best advice I can tell you is to forget the movie. Have her at your place to watch a movie or vica versa. I recently was at a lady friends house,watching a movie of course on her couch(notice there isnt a couch at the movies). Now she was laying on the couch and I just layed next to her talking to her. Moved in for the kiss,BAM you take it from there.
 
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