"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Making your move (the next level) i need help!!

Badmannaz

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So i met this girl at the club n she's not the only girl I was messing with..i was actually working one girl n my class be4 i started talking to her..i even deleted this chicks number out of my phone because she wasn't picking up her phone...so yea we chatted and we went on the 1st date which was pretty damn good...but then we go on the 2nd to a party...she wasn't feelin it..but she n i still talked
so i was with my friends the other night right after the party at another party and she says "i wanna see you tonight" i couldn't so we ended up just chatting on the phone a bit...so far everything is super smooth but i've yet to even kiss this girl!!! itz like WTF?? but the thing iz what she is telling me iz she's hard to get...i want her badly because she has the full package "what every man wants" CUTE-BRAINS-INCREDIBLE BODY-Sense of humor... so yea i'm going to the club tonight and she's gonna be there...i'm tired of this spectator ****..i wanna make a move on her but we are never alone...we are alwayz around are friends..i want to take this to the next level so what should i do tonight??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What did the DJ Bible say to do?
 

Rocko

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Isolation is easy man if your game is on. She will follow you where ever you want to go. Just say "hey, I'm thirsty, come with me to get a drink" or "Hey, I'm cold, with me to the car to get my sweater"
 

tmpgstx

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Welcome to the wonderful of AW land. Here is the pattern:

- You chat and go on date but no kissing
- She tells you she is 'hard to get'
- She says she's not 'feeling it' but you still chat at different party

For her emotions to 'fluctuate' so dramatically from one minute (or should we say one party) to the next, spells instability and AWdom.

She's playing your mind for an ego boost. Be her little puppy and see where it gets you ..that is to say nothing but headaches.
 
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