"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dannowillbookem

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at what point do i turn hanging out with a girl at the movies to kissing and making out? i mean its like a barrier that i'm having trouble getting past lately.

any good advice on making the move?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well.. call her on the phone and stuff like that, and when you are pretty sure that she feels the same way about you (you should be able to tell) taker her to the movies. If she gets closer to you then usual, just slip your arm around her, im sure she could take the hint, and y ou should be set. From there take it step by step. from cuddeling to kissing to making out. after each transition make sure you are comfterbal, i dont advise to just start feeling her up and stuff :crackup:

Note from Vincent: :mad: don't!
 
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LikRetsam

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Originally posted by metalmilitia
well.. call her on the phone and stuff like that, and when you are pretty sure that she feels the same way about you (you should be able to tell) taker her to the movies. If she gets closer to you then usual, just slip your arm around her, im sure she could take the hint, and y ou should be set. From there take it step by step. from cuddeling to kissing to making out. after each transition make sure you are comfterbal, i dont advise to just start feeling her up and stuff :crackup:
Use standard font please.

dannowillbookem, the entire game is not set in stone. You don't walk up to a chick on the street and ask her for a fvck. You start from scratch and you step it up. Kissing doesn't magically happen, it requires you to lead up to it.

Learn to use Kino (search function if needed).
 

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Kino, kino, kino, and if nothing happens, don't force it. Just let everything fall into place. You'll be fine.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Void

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;) youre in the friends zone

i would tell you to just go read the bible but then i'd be an *******. which i'm not . :)

You start off by kinoing more, and calling her to go places. Then you just have to use your gut for the rest. It's really not as complicated as it seems.

KINO= INTEREST
 
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