"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Making the "being an *******" thing work

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It seems that being an a-hole, paired with some attractiveness, is the way to go as far as getting girls. However, I can't really seem to get it to work that great for me.

Note, I'm not an a-hole in the sense that no one likes me...I in fact have quite a bit of friends. However, I mean...it seems that it's the men that have perfected the art of "a-holeishness" that can get a chick without much difficulty. Tucker Max comes to mind.

Like, could someone break down the aspects of being an a-hole that equate to being good with females?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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an ahole in america iz a man somewhere elze..

bazically if U care about how 'U' think and how "u" feel u will be labeled an azz hole..but bottom line..women came from uz and 4 uz..even ur own mother cared more about ur feelingz then she expected u 2 care about her feelingz...thuz da term 'mammaz boy'....
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Royal Elite said:
bazically if U care about how 'U' think and how "u" feel u will be labeled an azz hole..but bottom line..women came from uz and 4 uz..even ur own mother cared more about ur feelingz then she expected u 2 care about her feelingz...thuz da term 'mammaz boy'....
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Do you speak English?
 
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Hey LeMac! I confess, I was guilty of this too... I spent a good amount of my time on this forum with this attitude.

But I discovered that you have to be consistent for anything to work: you have to practice a LOT!

Take something, anything, and run. Try it a lot. If it REALLY doesnt work for you, come back here and take another thing. Rinse and repeat.

As I read somewhere:

"It doesnt matter which road you are following. You will not get anywhere if you don't keep walking!"
 
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yez...but i speak and write it how i feel..i have grown pazt following da rulez of otherz..i dont follow any human rulez unlezz i chooze 2..i dont like being trainned...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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djbr said:
Hey LeMac! I confess, I was guilty of this too... I spent a good amount of my time on this forum with this attitude.

But I discovered that you have to be consistent for anything to work: you have to practice a LOT!

Take something, anything, and run. Try it a lot. If it REALLY doesnt work for you, come back here and take another thing. Rinse and repeat.

As I read somewhere:

"It doesnt matter which road you are following. You will not get anywhere if you don't keep walking!"
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Heh, thanks for the non-retarded reply. But like...can you re-read it and see if you can answer my question. I'm not really asking if I have to be an *******, I'm saying that like...that's already my kinda personality, so what do I need to do to make it work for me?
 
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Being an ass hole to get women is just as bad as buying flowers and kissing women's asses. Either way you are supplicating to them and trying to be what (you think) they want.
 
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The part of an a-hole girls like is that they are bold and dont give a sh1t about most things. And they say whatever they want even if it makes u feel like ****. For example if you're on date and the girl wants u to do something a real a-hole would either say "no" or my favorite: "ok but you have to give me a BJ in return".
 
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The Truth said:
Being an ass hole to get women is just as bad as buying flowers and kissing women's asses. Either way you are supplicating to them and trying to be what (you think) they want.
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Right on the money!
 
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Of course there are some total b!tches that have "manipulating men" downright to a frikkin art,every word they say is a ****-test,being an a-hole to these type of girls gets the best results.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Truth said:
Being an ass hole to get women is just as bad as buying flowers and kissing women's asses. Either way you are supplicating to them and trying to be what (you think) they want.
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Except one works and one doesn't. Ass hole isn't the right word anyway, who wants an ass hole around? Aim for 'challenge.'
 
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I think someone said it before. It's not being an ******* girls find attractive, it's just not being a wuss.

BTW - I think this also applies to relationships in general, people don't respect needy, NICE guys. They're no fun as everything is TOO serious and they can't tell the difference when it's JUST a joke and not something meant to hurt. Part of creating a bond with someone is being able to rib them harmlessly, it can actually make someone feel more accepted.
 
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