"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Making Money and being Rich

ssj245

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My passion

My passion is to own a corporation one day that is worthy of a skyscraper. I also deep down desire the ability to attract women whom I consider hot and have sex with them and make them my gf and then one day find a wife.

Those two are pretty much the things that I want to acomplish in my life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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manbearpig

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Mine? Own my own business, be able to stop working early as I can, find a good wife, NO kids, and not die too young and take good care of myself so I'm not too miserable in my old age, lol.
 

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ssj245 said:
My passion is to own a corporation one day that is worthy of a skyscraper.
manbearpig said:
Mine? Own my own business, be able to stop working early as I can, find a good wife, NO kids, and not die too young and take good care of myself so I'm not too miserable in my old age, lol.
now i'm not saying you're wrong, but those are not a 'passion'

a passion is something you can do right now. you described your dreams. don't confuse the two.

what is it you absolutely love to do if time didn't exist and you could do it regardless of money? you would do it even if you were dead broke and didn't make money off it. something you may be very good at but put off to the side thinking it's a hobby, or because your parents or peers tell you it's not worth it for a career. what is it you love to do and are great at? everyone has something.

for me, it's webdesign/flash/art work. i've done tons of stuff and am still doing work without getting paid for it. and then there's projects where i get $2-$3K in less than a month. and i don't even care much for the money, it's a great bonus, but the work is so enjoyable i would be doing it for free anyway. i do it in my freetime any time i can.

and if it seems there is no clear occupation associated with what you love to do, then you may have to think about it more and find a way to connect yourself to it.

keep thinking though, once you find out what it is you absolutely love to do, things start to get clearer.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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