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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Making her write down her number on a piece of paper vs typing it in my phone?

Piers Nivens

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If I ask a girl to write down her number on the back of a paper (for example, back of receipt, if she is a cashier etc), would I lose any points as compared to asking her to type it into my phone?

What if I am on my phone in a call and I tell the other person to hold fpr a few mins, chat her up, and ask her to write down her number ?

I am asking because in this era everyone is a phone gen, and use phones to do this. She is nearly mid 20s and uses her phone a lot.

Is this conventional method going to be positive or negative of an approach to number closing? Awkward or would it make me stand out because I am not doing it the same way as every other guy?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gravityeyelids

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lol no. Doesnt matter....either way shes giving you her number?

If she wants to give you her number, shes gonna giver you her number if you ask. Stop worrying and just get the number. Just do whatever is easier for both of you.

All this over-analyzing is destructive at a certain point.
 

Piers Nivens

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Yeah she is.

Its less of over analysing and more of a "hm, which method would put more subconscious gpod points in this.."

I.e. common hand her phone tell her to write nimber vs the classic tell her to write it down pn a piece of paper.

afterall, sometimes whats not common can be more attractive or at the very least, it stands out
 

gravityeyelids

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Dude. it doesnt matter. Getting the number don't mean jack. not trying to be a **** or anything. But girls will give out their number just to get you to shut up and go away. It's much more important what you do before and after getting the number. Just assume attraction and go for "no".
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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