"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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make outs but no f closes. why?

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vachir

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never really have the problem with going for make outs at clubs but hardly ever f-close.

could it be a paradox? man should be aggressive but still need to be a challenge?

any advice please
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't start something where you can't finish it. Take her home before you start the makeout session. In the bar,she may be doing it for the attention,because it's fun, etc. BUT if she goes home with you,she knows sex is coming. You are making her choose. Get her home on some pretext,cook her breakfast etc. THEN make out. She is there and she doesn't have the 15 minute drive to cool off and think.
 
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HeyPachuco!

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Have you even attempted to get a SNL?

After the make-outs what do you do? How does the girl react? Does she flinch when you try to make a move, is she drunk? are you drunk?

Need more information on that for us to actually detect you're problem.
 
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