"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Make fun of yourself

Hendrix

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Girls eat this up especially when you're being made fun of. Don't take yourself too seriously and have fun with the teases they give you. If you're able to make fun of yourself that shows confidence. For a lack of an example, say shes making fun of the size of your PP before she ever sees you. Simply tell her that you can't help the weather. It's not that hard guys, and you can't try too hard or it won't have the same effect. But use it djs! :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonJuanMonk

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Bad advice.

Only make fun of yourself if you are successful in life in successful in a typical activity.

Example: Howard Stern or Jay Leno.
 

Tazman

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But if you get defensive doesn't that show insecurity? If someone pokes fun at you wouldn't laughing with them make you seem less concerned about it? Sometimes my friends get on my nerves when they start joking around about me, but if I show them it affects me they'll keep on doing it. When I laugh it off it's a non-issue. Of course, occasionally I'll come back at them with something but I don't always have something clever to say so I'll just laugh with them, maybe even join in.
 

Tboner

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I've found it best to join in the teasing. It's easy to do and girls
eat it up because it shows you have tremendous confidence. This is something you can't fake. There is nothing anyone can say to me that causes me to feel insecure, so I can joke about anything.

Girl: Your shirt looks gay.
Me: Yeah, that's what my boyfriend says.
 
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