Major Realization
I was in class just now, sitting around and theorizing about game - game as in pickup skills – and I had what I believe to be the most important realization about being a Don Juan or Pick-Up Artist.
I am sitting there writing this on a piece of paper:
“What attracts women? Or better yet, what controllable features quickly and passively get a woman’s attention?”
Then I realized I used the word passive in there, when a man is supposed to be active/aggressive. But I ignore that for a moment and continue.
“To answer my question:
Grooming
Body Language
Body Condition and Shape (Fitness)
Facial Expression
Ornamentation
Things I can do to achieve those things:
Clear up face from pimples and scars
Shave & Haircut
Work Out
“Bad Boy” facial expressions and body language
Tattoos & Piercings (I’m not for that, but it’s a possibility)
Clothes that show off or accentuate body (V-shape, ass, chest/gut ratio)
No glasses or glasses that look nice”
Then I tried to see what I could do on the more active side of game. I came up with:
“What actions get a woman’s interest?
Approach?
Conversation?
Body Language?
???”
That’s when it hit me. I was relying too much on the passive attractants rather than on the aggressive ones. When I examine all the times I’ve gotten laid, it’s been because the girl was the aggressor. Even with my LTR, she showed interest first and I reacted to that.
The guys who have good game are great at the aggressive actions, such as approaching and building rapport. Even if they don’t have the passive things going for them – good looks, nice clothes, muscles – they still get laid enough with simple effort. Of course, throw in the passive things mentioned above, and they’re unstoppable.
On a biological level, we are the sperm that changes everything. Eggs in a woman are always female. When a ‘female’ sperm enters the egg, nothing happens – it remains female, and becomes a chick. When a ‘male’ sperm enters the egg, however, we change everything. We dominate that egg and make it into a male child – us. We were once that special sperm that ****ed up that egg’s ****. Hell yeah!
On a sexual level, we are the ones with the penis. We have to enter the woman. For this physical act, it requires initiative, action, aggressiveness, persistence, patience, and forcefulness on the part of the male. Coincidentally, this is what is required socially to get the women into bed in the first place. Almost every social encounter with a woman is like sex. Building rapport is basically verbal foreplay, and so on. We have to turn the girls on before we can enter them. Granted, trying to force your way into them can get you somewhere once in a while, too. This applies as a social metaphor, too. We are basically one giant walking penis, trying to find an open vagina, or basically open one ourselves.
As males, we must be more aggressive. We must act in our interests. Looking at a girl and wishing she would approach us or wishing that fate would contrive a situation in which we meet is not aggressive. We have to approach her.
Even if we approach and fail, we are much better off than wishing for her to approach. Waiting for eye contact before making a move is being passive, as well. Just as our bodies learn the easiest angle on which to get into a vagina as we become more experienced, we learn the easiest ‘angles’ after approaching dozens of women. The more we do it, the better we’ll get. There are so many ways to fail, but all you need is to find a few ways to succeed.
Hollywood has made us think that women do the pursuing. After all, Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt don’t have to try to get women. Women throw themselves at their feet, basically begging for sex. But nature didn’t intend on Hollywood. Nature intended for us to be aggressive and pursue women. Without Hollywood, Tom and Brad over here would be AFC’s who got by on looks… although Tom might get passed by because he was a little short, and Brad might sometimes look too metrosexual for the girls.
We all do so much to attract women. Forget that: Attraction is passive, and seduction is aggressive. It’s the woman’s job to attract the male, and the males job to **** her. That’s it. Now, she just has to be picky on who she lets **** her because she doesn’t want passive children. She wants, un a biological level, babies that will survive. Whether by learning or inheriting behaviors from the father, the babies will survive. So she doesn’t want to **** weak men. Women need an aggressor in their lives. That’s what we’re here for.
This is not a theory that has yet to be field-tested. This is a realization that came about after observing my efforts on the field. So, I’m going to focus on all the aggressive things I can do to get the women, while using the passive things such as dressing nice to give me a boost.
Seize the ****ing day, men. Be aggressive. I’ll see you on the field.
I was in class just now, sitting around and theorizing about game - game as in pickup skills – and I had what I believe to be the most important realization about being a Don Juan or Pick-Up Artist.
I am sitting there writing this on a piece of paper:
“What attracts women? Or better yet, what controllable features quickly and passively get a woman’s attention?”
Then I realized I used the word passive in there, when a man is supposed to be active/aggressive. But I ignore that for a moment and continue.
“To answer my question:
Grooming
Body Language
Body Condition and Shape (Fitness)
Facial Expression
Ornamentation
Things I can do to achieve those things:
Clear up face from pimples and scars
Shave & Haircut
Work Out
“Bad Boy” facial expressions and body language
Tattoos & Piercings (I’m not for that, but it’s a possibility)
Clothes that show off or accentuate body (V-shape, ass, chest/gut ratio)
No glasses or glasses that look nice”
Then I tried to see what I could do on the more active side of game. I came up with:
“What actions get a woman’s interest?
Approach?
Conversation?
Body Language?
???”
That’s when it hit me. I was relying too much on the passive attractants rather than on the aggressive ones. When I examine all the times I’ve gotten laid, it’s been because the girl was the aggressor. Even with my LTR, she showed interest first and I reacted to that.
The guys who have good game are great at the aggressive actions, such as approaching and building rapport. Even if they don’t have the passive things going for them – good looks, nice clothes, muscles – they still get laid enough with simple effort. Of course, throw in the passive things mentioned above, and they’re unstoppable.
On a biological level, we are the sperm that changes everything. Eggs in a woman are always female. When a ‘female’ sperm enters the egg, nothing happens – it remains female, and becomes a chick. When a ‘male’ sperm enters the egg, however, we change everything. We dominate that egg and make it into a male child – us. We were once that special sperm that ****ed up that egg’s ****. Hell yeah!
On a sexual level, we are the ones with the penis. We have to enter the woman. For this physical act, it requires initiative, action, aggressiveness, persistence, patience, and forcefulness on the part of the male. Coincidentally, this is what is required socially to get the women into bed in the first place. Almost every social encounter with a woman is like sex. Building rapport is basically verbal foreplay, and so on. We have to turn the girls on before we can enter them. Granted, trying to force your way into them can get you somewhere once in a while, too. This applies as a social metaphor, too. We are basically one giant walking penis, trying to find an open vagina, or basically open one ourselves.
As males, we must be more aggressive. We must act in our interests. Looking at a girl and wishing she would approach us or wishing that fate would contrive a situation in which we meet is not aggressive. We have to approach her.
Even if we approach and fail, we are much better off than wishing for her to approach. Waiting for eye contact before making a move is being passive, as well. Just as our bodies learn the easiest angle on which to get into a vagina as we become more experienced, we learn the easiest ‘angles’ after approaching dozens of women. The more we do it, the better we’ll get. There are so many ways to fail, but all you need is to find a few ways to succeed.
Hollywood has made us think that women do the pursuing. After all, Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt don’t have to try to get women. Women throw themselves at their feet, basically begging for sex. But nature didn’t intend on Hollywood. Nature intended for us to be aggressive and pursue women. Without Hollywood, Tom and Brad over here would be AFC’s who got by on looks… although Tom might get passed by because he was a little short, and Brad might sometimes look too metrosexual for the girls.
We all do so much to attract women. Forget that: Attraction is passive, and seduction is aggressive. It’s the woman’s job to attract the male, and the males job to **** her. That’s it. Now, she just has to be picky on who she lets **** her because she doesn’t want passive children. She wants, un a biological level, babies that will survive. Whether by learning or inheriting behaviors from the father, the babies will survive. So she doesn’t want to **** weak men. Women need an aggressor in their lives. That’s what we’re here for.
This is not a theory that has yet to be field-tested. This is a realization that came about after observing my efforts on the field. So, I’m going to focus on all the aggressive things I can do to get the women, while using the passive things such as dressing nice to give me a boost.
Seize the ****ing day, men. Be aggressive. I’ll see you on the field.
