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made out with girl; meeting her after two months

pyros

pyros

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Hiya.

here's the story in short:
I met this girl three years ago during a family trip. She was with her parents as well and she had a bf. We clicked, but nothing happened. She lives in a different city which is 7 hours away.
Three years have passed, and we kept in contact via FB. Two months ago she came to visit my city with some friends, and this time (she broke up with her bf at christmas) we made out two times, she looked pretty into me, and she was sad cause she had to return.

Now. Im going on a trip with my friends to a city which is 2 hours away from hers. I'd like to meet up with her but:

A) Do I go to her city on my own? I mean, I should get a train, leave my friends for some hours, see her, and come back to my friends (2 hours train again)

B) Do I tell her im going to that city, and somehow suggest we could meet somewhere in between both cities?

C) just tell her in going to that city but not to hers because my friends do not want to go there, and just wait to see if she suggests something.

D) other.


Ideas? suggestions?


Thank youuuu...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Telling her that you are going to a city 2 HOURS from hers and are willing to travel to meet up with her would send completely the wrong message...i.e. that you are short of options and desperate to meet up with her.

It depends on whether you are willing to spend 4 hours traveling to meet this girl. From thread, I guess yes...?

Instead of telling her which city you are actually going to, no matter how bad it may seem, LIE TO HER, say that you are coming to her city with your mates (i.e. for reasons unrelated to her), and arrange to met up with her.

Completely hide the fact that you are coming from 2 hours away, make sure it doesn't get posted on facebook where she may read it, and arrange to meet up.
 
pyros

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Hey,

I'd like to meet up with her, but im not desperate to do so.

what about option B) Do I tell her im going to that city, and somehow suggest we could meet somewhere in between both cities?


?

Thanks.
 
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