"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Made a bet to get laid

thedoc

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Basically I made a bet with some girl that I can get laid by the end of the school year. We each pick each other's provisions and we don't know what they are yet lol.

I only did this for some real motivation to get up and do stuff. I've been lazy as fvck lately and after college apps I'll have nothing to do anyway.

So, any realistic advice? Like I read all the bible stuff and everything but anything else. I'm just gonna stop being lazy and start finding parties and sh1t. It shouldn't not gonna be too hard lol.

PS, I was thinking, how funny would it be if I got with the girl that bet me. Oh man, I'm def gonna try for that first.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Darko J.

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You're screwed, in a bad way. Girls have so much social power, it's beyond our imagination. She can make sure that every girl you meet is turned off.

On the other hand, if she's not evil and actually a great girl, she might help you to get laid, or maybe even better, she ****s you instead. But anyhow, you've given a lot of power to that girl now.
 

eaglez1177

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thedoc said:
Basically I made a bet with some girl that I can get laid by the end of the school year. We each pick each other's provisions and we don't know what they are yet lol.

I only did this for some real motivation to get up and do stuff. I've been lazy as fvck lately and after college apps I'll have nothing to do anyway.

So, any realistic advice? Like I read all the bible stuff and everything but anything else. I'm just gonna stop being lazy and start finding parties and sh1t. It shouldn't not gonna be too hard lol.

PS, I was thinking, how funny would it be if I got with the girl that bet me. Oh man, I'm def gonna try for that first.
Yea I would DEFINITELY try getting laid from the girl you made the bet with. The fact that she made this bet with you could definitely be an indicator that she wants to fvck you. If not that, then yea just go to parties and stuff and see what happens.
 

Ice882

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San Jose California said:
^You're right. Even the ugliest, fattest girls are more social than us. It's in their blood. Girls are social.
....... they're not more social than me. Not at all.
 

thedoc

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Nah she's not a b1tch at all lol. Basically she was teasing me and I called her out on it haha.

Darko, J.: I definitely thought about that so I made part of the bet that no one in school finds out, or whoever tells loses the bet.

btw
Happy New Years everyone! Wish you all the best with everything in life, no just girls!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There's only one winner of this bet, if you think the girl you made it with is interested go for it, if not just party it up and hook up, if you're really struggling go for a party girl who's been round the block a bit and if somehow all else fails bang a desperate fat chick :p
 

dbot

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You made this bet with a girl? That's your green light, dude. Have a good night with her and then take her to a private spot and have some fun. I don't know why any girl would make that bet with a guy she wasn't interested in. She's giving you an opportunity... you better take advantage of it.
 
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