"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I just recently started watching this show on HBO/Max... I missed it during its original run (2007-2015).

What a great show... I can't stop watching! An excellent depiction of life in the 60's (1960-1968) in Manhatten NY.

The men and their fedora hats and the smoking! I'm shocked by all the smoking, in virtually every scene with Betty Draper (for example) she is smoking.

I also cannot believe all the cheating that went on and the blatant simping! I mean at times the simping (for a woman's pu$$y) was cringeworthy and I felt embarrassed for those men...

Even Don Draper (DD), a successful womanizer and serial cheater, did his fair share of simping.

He did seem to love his beautiful wife though... but yet didn't think twice about cheating on her... relentlessly!

In one scene even DD's very married boss (who was screwing his own secretary Joan) was hitting on DD's wife... in the kitchen of their home while DD was in the next room!

Anyway I'm only on the first season... looking forward to what comes next but wondering what you guys thought/think about it especially those who lived or worked in Manhattan during that time period.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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@Sega Genesis "I also cannot believe all the cheating that went on and the blatant simping! I mean at times the simping (for a woman's pu$$y) was cringeworthy and I felt embarrassed for those men...

Even Don Draper (DD), a successful womanizer and serial cheater, did his fair share of simping for new pu$$y"

Yeah, everything that's "new" is really quite ancient
 

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I watched the full series twice, once before and once after I started successfully dating. Subjectively speaking, and without spoilers, I found Season 1 to be the weakest, even though it has one of the best episodes of the series (“The Carousel”). Things really picked up for me midway through Season 3 and at the beginning of Season 4. Not to discredit Season 1 though since it’s still great TV.

The funny thing is that during my second rewatch, I watched the series with this girl. A month after we finished it, she found some texts on my phone and accused me of wanting to watch the show with her mainly to romanticize and desensitize cheating.
 
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Fantastic show. And. Very realistic. DD is a giga chad, and his screen life really reflects the Chad life accurately.
 

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I found Season 1 to be the weakest, even though it has one of the best episodes of the series (“The Carousel”).
Agree best episode thus far (still on Season 1).

>>"In Greek, Nostalgia literally means the pain from an old wound.

It's a twinge in your heart far more powerful than memory alone.

It takes us to a place where we ache to go again.

It's not called the Wheel, it's called the Carousel.

Let's us travel like a child travels.

Round and round back to the place

Where we know we are loved again."<<

--Don Draper
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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