"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lying on your resume

Scars

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How do you feel about this? Has anyone done it?

I have a somewhat short term plan for myself and decided to jump into the medical field. I've been hearing too many horror stories of people having every credential except X years experience. I'm thinking about just lying. The worst that could happen is I get fired right? If they don't notice it until years later, then I already have that much experience and it no longer becomes a lie..

-Scars
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backseatjuan

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Do you want to mess around with PH.Ds and M.Ds - IQ 120+ on average? They compete amongst themselves with intellect, have you matured enough to out wit or at least keep status quo? I say anywhere but the medical field.
 

btownbuck2012

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I've lied about groups and clubs I was a-part of in college, but never about work experience or things I know how to do (i.e. **** on excel or access, etc, etc).
 

Gaucho

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I'm not sure about in the US, heck, I'm not even sure about in Australia, but I 'think' lying on your resume can have you seriously prosecuted. I did a 'fraud' course the other day and I think I remember skimming over that quickly and thinking damn, big penalty for such a small crime (of course unless you try fly an aeroplane or operate on somebody).
 
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