"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lying - Body Language and Eyes

JonSter

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If I were in your shoes, I would not say anything at all, and let him do all the talking. You need to hear all the "evidence" against you first. You may start denying things he didn't even know about before, and get yourself into deeper trouble -- or fired.

The key point to me is that he didn't fire you already. That tells me that:

- He may have suspicions about you, but is not sure.
- He doesn't think it's a fireable offense at this point in time, but may be waiting to see how you handle it.
- He is going to fire you after he gets someone else lined up to replace you.

If he has pretty good evidence against you, then I would just fess up and then downplay it as a very stupid one time mistake that has never happened before, and will never happen again.

I hope you've been preparing for possibly passing a drug test, and that you've been proving (every day) how indispensible you are to the company. He may have one reason to fire you, you need to make sure there are a lot more reasons why he should not.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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