"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lunch or should i say mid day meals....I can never think of what to eat.....i have my breakfast dinner figured out pretty good....and shakes in between.....Lunch always bugs me....this is what i usually eat but im really getting sick of it

Turkey sandwich on whole wheat
yogurt
almonds


Day after day i eat that.... i need new lunch ideas that are easy to prepare and are high protein, and good taste :). Dont tell me beef/veggies effort ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What about switching the turkey to chicken/ham/beef.

Another thing you could do is use mayonnaise instead of butter (if you aren't already). Probably a better idea to use low fat mayonnaise (blasphemy!) since it is earlier in the day, if you were to do this.

Alternatively go to Gregg's and get get a Thai chicken sandwich, although Gregg's is UK only I think. (Don't know where you live, most likely US).

If that is the case go to subway or quiznoes or something. Yum.

Quagmire
 

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i heard quiznos subs have like 1000 calories lol, with all the sauce they put on, i get whole wheat and chicken too ubt u gotta have sauce to mak eit taste good:)
 

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Hockey Playa said:
i heard quiznos subs have like 1000 calories lol, with all the sauce they put on, i get whole wheat and chicken too ubt u gotta have sauce to mak eit taste good:)
Have a half sub instead of a full one.
 

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I always make lunch the night before then pack it in plastic in the fridge, then just pop it into my esky in the morning.

Idea 1:
Massive chicken salad with cheese, avocado, heaps of olive oil, rocket, garlic, onion, capsicum, cucumber and vinegar.

Idea 2:
Fry mince (beef, lamb or pork) with garlic, onion and sweet potato (chopped into small cubes), add Worcestershire sauce while frying. Package for refrigeration and serve with veggies/salad. Top with olive oil.

Idea 3:
Boil (at very low heat) casserole beef for 4 hours, place in container and serve with diced tomato, zucchini and cheese.

Idea 4:
Make a big roast beef and portion up into containers to serve with veggies.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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h_p, what do you have access to around lunchtime? microwave? hotplate? can you leave a crockpot sitting somewhere? none of the above?
 

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Meal 1. chicken and carbs (oats,apple,banana, brown rice and/or whole wheat spaghetti)
workout
2. pwo shake
3. chicken and carbs
4. raw eggs and whey. fish oil.
5. ground beef (usually in form of chili). fish oil.
6. raw eggs and whey or more ground beef
7. whey/egg white powder/caseine


My diet. Pretty simple. I cook about 1 hour one day a week and tupperware away.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Meal 1. chicken and carbs (oats,apple,banana, brown rice and/or whole wheat spaghetti)
workout
2. pwo shake
3. chicken and carbs
4. raw eggs and whey. fish oil.
5. ground beef (usually in form of chili). fish oil.
6. raw eggs and whey or more ground beef
7. whey/egg white powder/caseine


My diet. Pretty simple. I cook about 1 hour one day a week and tupperware away.
This is where it's at.
How and why is it in our culture food has become such an escapist treat?
I don't get bored with food and I pretty much eat the same thing every day. I throw in some some items to mix it up...almonds vs pistachios, turkey vs chicken or even beef, avocados vs cole slaw. Hell, rasberries vs blackberries lol.
Not until you are at peace with food serving as nourishment rather than entertainment will you ever abide by a strict dietary routine.

Don't get me wrong, I love to try new foods and dishes and don't mind a little experimentation, but I don't live for it.

I'm venting cause I know so many people (women, more often than not) seem way too fixated on food as an event rather than an object. That is the quick route to unhealthy eating imo.
 

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insidious said:
I'm venting cause I know so many people (women, more often than not) seem way too fixated on food as an event rather than an object. That is the quick route to unhealthy eating imo.
personally, I think you have this backwards. the people who are the epitome of making food an event rather than an object are the French, and they seem to know more about healthy eating than the rest of us (except that they seem to be discovering McD's in droves now.....)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hockey Playa said:
microwave, stove, fridge..wouldnt trust a crockpot with my dumb roomates
well then you have all the hardware you need to get creative, if you can find an hour or two per week, or even better, an hour a day.
 
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