"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Luck or Game?

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Yesterday was Valentines as we all know. I took out a girl that I had just met the past weekend. I'm going to try and sum this up to get to the point.

At the bar we had a great time just flirting and getting to know each other. I was having a blast with this girl. All my friends were so jealous. They continued to try and flirt with her to piss me off / they really wanted her. I just sat back relaxed and didn't let it get to me. I think at one point I even said to her jokingly yea go dance with him (this guy who was a total Dusche bag) she looked me in the eye and well i dunno i think thats when i got lost haha

Anyways we go back to my place my room mates had some pizza. The whole time they where trying to flirt with her. I still calmly sat back and gave her a confident smile. I went up stairs to get something and as I was walking out of my room she was there..... she looked at me with this look that is indescribable and I pulled her in and the rest was well you could imagine....

I felt for the first time I really wasn't trying to spit game but what the hell did I do because this girl is incredible?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You had something going for you! That girl wanted you and only you! Those other guys were AFCs! You weren't! And I'm proud of you!

Might I mention you had the balls to talk to that girl! Maybe the girl being available was the only luck.

Check out this thread, pretty similar.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=67997

Yesterday, I went to school with no date for Valentine's Day, and I ended up taking four chicks out to dinner and made out with them that night! Not only that, I got dates set up for next week!

Oddly, I was wearing a pink polo, Red D**kies pants, and all white nike shoes! My 3 wristbands matched and I also had a white watch on.

The little sh*t that gets you noticed...It helps to not smell like fried chicken and cheap cologne! I'm planning my dates for next week! Good luck with your endeavors!
 
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It's a combination of luck and confidence. Sometimes the gods are just smiling on you.
 
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