"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lucid dreaming for more time.

Alle_Gory

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nygard

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Lucid Dreaming, yep. That'd be awesome, but the device hardy works. There's a higher probability than say, no device at all but bear in mind that not even that guy has ever archieved one using it.
 

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I've had two lucid dreams in my life. The second one just happened randomly once.

I had the first one on the day I first found out about this idea. I spent most of the day reading up on it, and I guess because I was so focused, it happened that night. After that I tried all the techniques to have them again for about a week, but with no more luck I just gave up.

While they are fun and may give you a chance to practice things in a virtual reality type of environment, I don't think you would really gain a lot of time. Dreams are very short, and the illusion of length we get sometime is just that, like how a movie can give you the impression that events are happening over the course of a year when the movie is only 2 hours long.
 
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