"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ltr Section!

sexy_kuta

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alright..

we all know high school section is for high skool kids and the don juan dicussion is for DJS and pua... and their attempts

but wheres the LTR section..

isnt this site based on LTR??

we need a LTR SECtion i think

it would really benifit
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Truth

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I would like to see a LTR section. I know lots of men here want relationships or need help in their relationships but most of the advice they get is telling them relationships are wrong and they should go fvck random women instead.

Plus most of the guys giving advice on this site are clueless about relationships and their textbook PUA advice just doesnt work in relationships.

There are some experienced guys here and I got some good LTR advice from them but it would be good to separate those guys from the PUAs.
 

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I'm all for it. I;m in a relationship for nine months right now. What I want to know is how to keep things going like it's going right now.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Go to the Mature Man's board, there's plenty of stuff on LTRs there. And BTW, if you're too young to post there, you're far too young to be considering an LTR.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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