"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LR: 1st date Lay Report using Direct Method

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1st date Lay Report
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It rained today. I told her I never did it while listening to the rain. So once again we started enjoying each other. So passionate and yet so tender...

Wow... what a night...

If you told me one year ago that things could happen so smooth I'd have never believed you.

This morning after she cooked me breakfast she told me she felt like she knew me forever and that I'm so different to all the other guys. That I care. I have a heart. I smiled and kissed her. She told me when guys approach her they talk about money, they try to boast about the things they have yet all those things don't matter to her. She knows she's hot and many would like to have sex with her but not many get to know WHAT SHE TRULY WANTS.

She didn't want to kiss me at first, this was 2 days ago after I met her through a friend, who knew this group of girls. Back then, I could chose from any of the girls in that particular group because all of them were attracted to me after I talked to them for a while. And yet last night we went into the club as a group, I kissed her and we had sex, all that happening in the same night... talk about resistance :p. It was all to see whether I truly wanted her and not just her body.

She is now inlove. She would like to spend all day with me, every day. Of course this time I get to set the rules. I lead from the first moment so I get to keep leading and take decisions. It's so good to be in charge, to be a man at the same time by just being yourself.

PS I'll tell you in a later post about how I started seduction and how I gradually got to learn the Direct Method, the one I find best.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Congrats man, sounds like you had fun.

I'm also going to suggest something that most people aren't going to. If you like this girl (you said you've known her for a year right?), then settle down, but only if you REALLY like her, again if I'm wrong about the year thing than wait. I just waned to toss this out there before all the KBJs with the "omg one - itis run away!!!!111oneoneone" started coming.
 
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What exactly did you do to make such an impact?
 
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I wrote this LR on 30th July ... So that means we've been together for around a week. I'm to lazy to do the calculus :p.

I measure relationships in the ammount of connection we feel together not in days, months, years... I told her that too...

That's why she felt she could open up sexually so fast, on the first date... Because we both cared for each other.

Direct is about being a strong man and caring for your woman. You might wanna try it too. Show your intentions in the approach, tell her you like her... and really get to know her...
 
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...this wasn't helpful at all, can you please atleast post an idea of what you did that lead to the lay, because I've always wondered how people who do Direct game does it. So it would be nice to go into details, goodjob by the way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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