Ok to give an extreme example I had a sad case of a mate whose wife basically ruined his life by forcing him to move from Australia back to England. He just couldn't move past it. He used to update his Facebook many times a week saying why did he ever go back. I tried to help the guy but it was pointless because he was stuck in a loop in his head. There was no room for any new thoughts or behaviours. If you constantly find yourself obsessing about your problems or your thoughts going in a circle then you need professional help.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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