"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Love. What's your view?

TizZle

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 12, 2004
Messages
433
Reaction score
6
Here's my view on love as it pertains to women:

Love is both an emotion and a risk.

Men take risks. With any risk there is a certain amount of danger involved, so it is important to not take an unneccessary risk.

Love is an emotion that is hard to control. I believe, in fact, it is the hardest emotion to control as a man. It is the most fullfilling emotion and it is the most hurtful.

Love is like fire, it can keep you warm and coszy but it can also burn you.

This is why the most important rule is to protect your heart.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Forty0ztoFreedom

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2008
Messages
493
Reaction score
10
Wasn't it proven scientifically that the feelings of "being in love" are identical to the feelings of "winning money?"

I think that says it all, really.
 

catman

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2009
Messages
158
Reaction score
2
Location
midwest
I will take the money over love any day:D Love if it does exist on a romantic level seems to always have a way of fadeing away.And it seems to usually do this about 7-8 years into your realionship or marriage.People do have a really unrealistic view of what love is nowdays.Part of love is about money, part of it is about how they treat you ,and the other part is do you really want to start over??? Someone on here said find someone you like and are compatible with and forget about love:up:
 
Top