"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lots of inner game, no outer game questions

shouldbefun

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Noticed that a huge amount of posts are “how should I behave as opposed to do x,y,z or this is how you game this girl in x situation.

I get that theres the DJ bible but whats happening, why are we talking more and doing less? Why are we dreaming about armenian chicks as opposed to actually gaming ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lamath

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Reading is easier than actions.
Dont need balls to read, it is one of my problem.
I tend to get more knowlegable but without the real experience needed
 
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