"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

lost on how to meet this girl tomorrow

chance-

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2007
Messages
159
Reaction score
1
so this girl offered to go meet up for a coffee (met her a dating site) and we only spoke an hour or so.. on and off not constant. so anyway, i don't drive but i dont know how to get to her suburb, it's not that far but for me to get to her i would have to catch a train all the way into the city (40mins) then get another train going down to her area (another 40mins). so screw that!

she drives, but apparently she also doesn't know how to get to my suburb? i think she might be bullsh!tting me... if you drive it cant be that hard.. gps, friends, map. any ideas? should i forget about it and meet ppl closer to me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Kailex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2010
Messages
2,072
Reaction score
190
Location
New Jersey
I love how people respond to their own questions with the correct answer already.

What, are you only going to do the option that WE choose for you?
You already know the answer to this, so why ask at all?

If she can't figure out how to use Google Maps, and yet she can use online dating websites, she's definitely not worth your time.
 

Neon Owl

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 10, 2010
Messages
321
Reaction score
1
Location
UK
Have you actually spoken to her over the phone or have you just been msging?
No way in hell I'd travel on public transport for 80 mins without speaking to her first. She could easily flake.
When speaking to her you should be able to accurately gauge if she has genuine interest or not.

I suppose it all depends how hot she is and how much effort you're willing to put in to try and pork her.
 

chance-

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2007
Messages
159
Reaction score
1
yeah, i always make sure i see pics n talk on the phone (even webcam if i can) - ive learnt from bad experiences :p
 
Top