I was at a party and there was this girl (HB 1000) who was hardcore flirting with me. She wasnt drunk either. SHe was saying all these sexually suggestive things and there was kino goin on and everything. and then she just stopped for some reason. Do you think she just lost interest or what happened?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Lost interest?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
i agree with casanova, it depends what you did, if she is a HB 1000, then shes probably used to talking to men and she is probably good at testing. You must have walked right into her trap by showing extra interest in her, if she was going some heavy filrting with you, its only usual duing a party, even with girls who werent drunk, if you have subscribed to DJ newsletter, then you would have recieved the quick tip yesterday saying what girls are like in parties(like stealing candy from a child). You should have acted uninterested, because i bet all other guys acted like you and melted before her flirting, so next time use david's active disinterest skill and she should be chasing after you giving you her number
Zerotwoonenine said:i agree with casanova, it depends what you did, if she is a HB 1000, then shes probably used to talking to men and she is probably good at testing. You must have walked right into her trap by showing extra interest in her, if she was going some heavy filrting with you, its only usual duing a party, even with girls who werent drunk, if you have subscribed to DJ newsletter, then you would have recieved the quick tip yesterday saying what girls are like in parties(like stealing candy from a child). You should have acted uninterested, because i bet all other guys acted like you and melted before her flirting, so next time use david's active disinterest skill and she should be chasing after you giving you her number
If you acted uninterested, wouldnt she just think "he doesnt want me" and move on to somebody else?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
This is the biggest thing i have ever discovered and did so by looking at how i react. She certainly will move on to some one else, but you cant let it phase you because she will still want you. If she was trying to 'chat you up' and then you left her to talk to another girl, even if she talks to another guy she will want you more then ever.saber101 said:If you acted uninterested, wouldnt she just think "he doesnt want me" and move on to somebody else?
Its no the talking that counts, its the times when you are not talking.
When she feels frustrated that you are not tlaking to her, as if theres absolutly nothing in her power that she cna do ot make you like her, this iw when oyu slowly start rationing out attention in small amounts.
its human nature, we all want what we cant have only because we cant have itsaber101 said:If you acted uninterested, wouldnt she just think "he doesnt want me" and move on to somebody else?