"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Crazy Asian

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i'm in a phase where i can get some of the 5-7 girls.
the 8-10's still unconsciously intimidate me.
but with the few girls that i actually get to like me, i loose interest very quickly. They were cute at first, but now they become repulsive and i try to ignore them.
is this the same thing as a guy being needy?
they become repulsive in the eyes of women as these girls are to me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonGorgon

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DonS said:
You are moving up the social ladder. You worked through the 5's, 6's, and now 7's. Keep building your inner and outer game and you'll be tapping 8's in a year or so.

Yes, once these woman are no longer a challenge to you, you find them repulsive. It is the exact same thing women feel for men who are no longer a challenge.

Too bad so many women us BS to make themselves into a challenge..
 
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