"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Losing Virginity with a 3-Some!?!

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Ok, so this is going to sound weird lol but its true. I'm 20, virgin by the way.

I met this one girl on stickam.com over a year ago when I didn't have balls to talk to girls in real life. This 21 year old girl was very, umm, ok i'll just call her a s1ut. hha well she randomly texted me the other day and told me she would be coming to work in the city i go to school in 10 days on the 27th. she's staying in a hotel for 3-4 days. So, long story short, she's bringing with her a 17 year old friend (who's a girl), and she wants me to have a 3-some with them.

The girl I met on stickam said that her friend also thinks im cute and said she would fu!ck me.

Obviously, as a virgin, I'm pretty excited about this. I'm also pretty nervous cause i have no clue what the hell im doing. I figure if I prepare myself for what to do, I should be less nervous because I know I'll be ready.

Anyone have any advice on how to act with 2 girls needing attention?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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one thing i learned about women is that never count on their words, but their actions. tell us about it after yal do it
 
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DO IT if you can. you may never get another chance for a threesome.
 
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Let me respond to this...rarely do i respond to anything. When I was 18 I could have lost my V-card to a 3-some...but i declined. Not that I didn't want to...its cuz i wanted the first time to be special. How dumb of an idea was it to turn it down. I regret it everytime i think about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In high school I turned down a threesome because I was in a committed relationship at the time. Looking back, I highly regret it. High school relationships are never serious.

Like hooraholic said - just do it. You may never get another chance.
 
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Powerofmindset said:
Let me respond to this...rarely do i respond to anything. When I was 18 I could have lost my V-card to a 3-some...but i declined. Not that I didn't want to...its cuz i wanted the first time to be special. How dumb of an idea was it to turn it down. I regret it everytime i think about it.
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That makes two of us. I was in the "sex after love" mindframe like every other brainwashed chump. If only I'd found out about these forums earlier...:kick:
 
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Thanks to all the guys who responded with encouragement to go ahead and do the 3-some. I definitely don't want to have any regrets, so wish me luck! The biggest thing is just for me to relax and ENJOY it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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moneyisking said:
one thing i learned about women is that never count on their words, but their actions. tell us about it after yal do it
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Yup.

Don't feel blown up if she decides to switch it on you last minute, keep your cool, shrug, then get on with life and other girls.
 
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