"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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losing my gf of 2 years...

Commandante

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Mjazz said:
if you guys need any additional info just ask
I think you have already told everything important. Read back your own posts and you will see that she is cheating on you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe she just wants a devils threesome

dont liten to these guys they say the same thing everytime
Tell your brain to STFU and listen to your gut or you will regret things
 

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Well I'm sorry to hear this. You don't deserve it and based on what you've posted her she's not worth your time. You need to give your time to a more stable, trustworthy, deserving girl.

If it's any consolation in the future when her life is in the pits she'll regret her decision.

Don't ever put up with with not being your girls #1 priority (except in certain cases like her parents, duh)
 
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