"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lose your job? You suck.

Luthor Rex

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WaterTiger said:
I have a friend at work who's husband has been out of work for two months, after being laid off from his job. Every morning he goes to "job websites", sends out about 20 resumes & spends the rest of the day playing WarCraft. She works a full-time job, a part-time job and has a small business she runs in her spare time. (PLUS she takes care of their 2 children.)

Do you have respect for this guy?
Considering we aren't getting his side of the story, there's no reason to believe what you are telling us is accurate. His wife is probably making this up or exaggerating what he is actually doing.

I can't imagine anyone would trust a woman anymore when they spout this kind of b.s..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rjaudenes

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Keep discussing on marriage ...Yeah

Keep with this

Time will pass on and your dreams will evaporate in seconds

Keep doing this guys

Sooner or later life will confront what you have done and what you havent done

keep wasting your most valuable asset: TIME

You want to base your decisions on Time and not morals. Man forgot a long time ago what is moral.

If a woman is worthless of your time just dump her and that is it

The rest is **** pub philosophy
 
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