Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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loose muscle/skin

Snap87

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Sup guys, have a question. I have this loose skin/muscle under my arm. When i lift my arm, it looks like i have big tricep muscle,(good part) but when i wiggle my arm, it wiggles too(bad part)....its so embarrasing lol, but no one has seen it, also when i have my arms down my side... it looks like i got a sort of fatty arm, lol. So, if i keep working out, like my tricepts, biceps, etc. will real muscle replace that? THANKS!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shiftkey

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If you just lost 100 lb of fat it's skin, but otherwise it's probably fat. Unfortunately you can't spot reduce fat the same way you can build muscle. If you lose fat, eventually you'll lose that arm fat with how soon depending on your genetics. Just be glad you're not like me - if you looked at my arms, chest, and legs you'd think I have ~8% BF, but in reality I'm closer to 13% because the last fat for me to lose is in my gut and sides :(
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Fifteen years old with granny arms, that's rough. Luckily you're still young enough to tighten things up. Work your tricepts with exercises like dips; results are relitively fast, you don't need weights and they can be done almost anywhere.
 
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