"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Looks don't matter... yes they do! don't! do! DONT!! DO!!!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Alphathree
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Do you hear that? That's the sound of the joke flying over your head.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
rams 17-12 Arizona
your looks will matter to a lot of girls, especially younger ones. You could definately be pulling lots of ass and be average at the same time, but you better be uber-suave if you wanna shot at
HB's 7-10.
Someone with comprable game but with a better looking face/body will pull a lot more ass and a lot easier. You will be chased, while average joe with uber-suave personality will be under constant pressure to keep the girl in that state of infatuation. Otherwise, she will eventually dump his ass.
So work on your game as always, but work on looking good by lifting weights. It will make approaching and pulling chicks a lot easier
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Cheat_LBJ
Don Juan
Take it from someone is almost 7 feet tall, it's the single biggest disadvantage to dating you can think of.
Imagine always being above the crowd, having to shout to be heard in loud bars, unable to get down a grind when dancing, and having women look at you not with any sort of interest but gawking like you're some kind of exhibit in a museum.
I'm not quite that tall, but I am tall enough to stick out wherever I go, stooping over to talk to girls, getting hit in the face by low-hanging branches... hell, even my bathroom's doorway is only six feet, I hit my head every morning.
What's worse is everyone insisting that being tall gives you so many natural advantages. It's true one can be intimidating with relative ease, but as far as talking to women goes, it would be OK to be only like seven inches taller than them instead of a foot.
Alphathree
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Thank you for making my night
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.