Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Quick and Effective AMOG Tactics
I used this twice last night. When lameass AMOGs try to approach your set, you smile and say “Dude, she just broke up with her boyfriend”, and raise your eyebrows like ‘go for it’, kind of thing.
They girls are like “SHUT UP! I DID NOT!!” and jump on you and start hitting you. It’s funny ****.
One thing Dreamweaver pointed out to me, was that if you make suggestions about the girl doing things with the AMOG, that she is not at the buying temperature to be ready for, its an out-alpha, since she isn’t ready for that, she’ll squirm at the thought of it. The dude will see it, and feel deflated.
Also: TUG OF WAR -
If you are playing tug of war with another player, and he has her, DO NOT try to REASON with the chick to go with you. Literally just spit more game at her, right in front of the AMOG. Some people aren’t clear on this obviously, as I realized seeing Twentysix get his girl that wanted him ****ing bad, go home with another guy, after he left her with too long of a takeaway. He was FULL IN with this girl. Fully on, greenlight for full monty. But he ditched her for 45 minutes and some goodlooking natural scooped her up. She even begged me to help her find him, but I didn’t know where he was at. By the time he came back, she was leaving with AMOG. He could have gotten her back by telling loud stories at her, and doing DHVs. She would have been interested, and would have ditched AMOG. But he lost. Lesson learned. I’ve learned this one the hard way MANY times.
You do this by literally smurfing the AMOG out of your reality. You just plow the girls, until they jump off of him, onto you. If he says anything, just laugh at him, or drop an AMOG blaster line on him, and then continue like you don’t even know he’s anything more than a 5 year old kid. Then say “Check this out. This is awesome. C’mere”, and pull her away from the AMOG. She’ll protest because she wants to **** AMOG, but you just pretend you didn’t hear, and rush her away from him. You can also grab another set of UGs and tell them to go meet your best friend, the AMOG, and that you’ll be right back. This may distract him long enough to get her away from him. Her buying temperature will be fully primed, so you can extract and lay. This is field tested many times. I love this kind of stuff.
If They’re Persistant
If he persists, poke him and call him cute and **** like that, and KEEP going with the DHVs and stories. Then say he’s weird, and pull her home.
Should AMOG really persist, your last resort is to say “Dude, go get a helmet and some crayons and go to the corner and keep yourself busy.” Variations are to tell him what to draw like “Dude, draw me pictures of that cool Tommy Hilfiger shirt, so I can go buy one.. It ****ing rocks man, go draw it.”, or the variation where you get him to go for rapport with you and then you break it. Like “Dude, OK seriously I was kidding around before and I’m not trying to mess with you. But I actually have like the best intuition for you, and I want you to hear it. Do you want to hear it?” When he says ‘yeah’, then tell him what to do. Most guys won’t fall for this, but if you detect he will, he looks doubly stupid for taking you seriously, and he’ll be deflated instantly. This backfires if he declines, in which case you fully shut him out and never address him again unless its to say “Dude, why are you talking to me. You’re ****ing weird man.”
Okay so it sucks if a guy comes in an disrupts your pick-up. There are two ways you can deal with them, either by amogging or befriending them. This is the former. Here are a few good lines if you want to cause some trouble
1) “whoa.. dude, you remind me so much of the most popular guy from my high school.. like the captain of the football team guy, who beats up all the nerds..”
2) “whoa.. dude, you’re like a total alpha male.. yeah, I’m serious.. I watched this show on TV describing alpha males.. you totally fit the bill.”
3) “dude.. you’re a pretty cool guy.. you know, I’m just saying that you’re cool.. you’re just a cool guy” (in a way where he can’t tell if you’re serious, so he has to say “thanks”, but doesn’t quite know how to react)
You’ll find that you get amazing results from these first three for several reasons:
■this is a mind-**** called “LABELLING”… its like if I told a gangster rapper “hey, you’re like the ‘****-guy’.. you like to say ‘****’ all the time.. that’s so cool…. ‘fuuuuck guuuuuy.. what’s up!” The gangster rapper would feel like “WTF.. is that bad?” and stop using the word ‘****’ around me as a result. It’s basically designed to get him CONSTANTLY CONSCIOUS of his actions, to trip him up.
■it shows that you understand his behaviour, and that the more he acts like that, the more he shows you that YOU ARE RIGHT, making YOU the alpha.
More good ones:
4) FROM LOVEDROP:
Ask AMOG if he can handle doing shots. Offer to purchase. Go to bar. Order 3 shots of Coca-Cola and 3 shots of Jaegermeister. (They look identical.) Bring shots back….quickly do Coke shots one after the other. Worst case, if he wants to buy the next round, you do a few shots….but then you get another round. Now he’s had 9 shots
He WILL capitulate in front of everyone. “Ok dude, that’s enough, you win, I can’t handle any more.” It’s great. You will be the alpha, and he will be vomiting in the bathroom all night. This is FIELD TESTED.
5) Wait until the guy leaves the group, and say:
“OK guys.. you wanna see something FUNNY AS ****.. alright, when AMOG gets
back, I’m going to tell the LAMEST joke.. and the punchline will be JELLO…
when I say the punchline, all of us are gonna break out laughing, and if he
laughs then we laugh at HIM.. (guy comes back).. there’s a priest, a rabbi, and
a muslim spiritual guy all in a boat.. and its sinking.. so the rabbi jumps out
and says “God will save me..”.. and he drowns.. DROWNS, like DEAD he DROWNS..
then the muslim spiritual guy jumps out and says “God will save me”.. same
thing, he DROWNS.. dammit he DROWNS.. so the priest gets up, looks at the sky,
and says………………….. JELLO”
Everyone starts laughing, and the AMOG laughs also.. Then you all laugh at AMOG, and he’s de-AMOG-ified.