I'm a follower of Pook's. I hope that at least one person who responds is at least familar with his material, or Maslow's.
There is this girl at my school who is graduating on friday. I have, and still think it would be fun to hook up with her, and learn from the process of dealing with women like her.
When I'm with her, I'm in control; I don't put up with her ****. But I have realized all this does is have us go back and fourth, and even though it asserts my position, it gets me nowhere.
I was thinking that I may be more successful if I just go in totally detached, and talk to her like I would a guy, and really listen to not what she says, but what she means.
I tried to hook up with her once before, but she pulled away. She said she didn't hook up with people unless she was on a date. When I told her I would take her out, she told me she wasn't really dating.
I'm not really fixated on that event mainly because I was full of deluding desire, and not in the moment. I felt like crap the whole time we were hanging out because I was so full of false desire.
Like I said before, I think it would be a unique learning experience to unwrap this girl, and would appreciate any insight.
There is this girl at my school who is graduating on friday. I have, and still think it would be fun to hook up with her, and learn from the process of dealing with women like her.
When I'm with her, I'm in control; I don't put up with her ****. But I have realized all this does is have us go back and fourth, and even though it asserts my position, it gets me nowhere.
I was thinking that I may be more successful if I just go in totally detached, and talk to her like I would a guy, and really listen to not what she says, but what she means.
I tried to hook up with her once before, but she pulled away. She said she didn't hook up with people unless she was on a date. When I told her I would take her out, she told me she wasn't really dating.
I'm not really fixated on that event mainly because I was full of deluding desire, and not in the moment. I felt like crap the whole time we were hanging out because I was so full of false desire.
Like I said before, I think it would be a unique learning experience to unwrap this girl, and would appreciate any insight.