"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Looking ffor a DJ/PUA mentor in Miami, FL

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Anyone able to teach.help me on Tuesdays during the day, and Thursday nights?

I'm trying hard here - even though i have a gf (so weekends are a no... i sleep over).

Check out the "Adventures of a RAFC" to see me FR's so far.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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alright, i found a PAIR/LAIR!

but until i meet up with them, it's solo sarging for me... gotta at least contribute SOMETHING to the group, can't be a leech.

this is my 'plan' for tomorrow night :)
it's written as a memo to myself just feel like posting it here.


This Thursday -
walmart in Cooper City
Walgreens in Pines

Practice Kino
Practice Mirroring
Practice Trance words
Learn how to creat rapport... whether you #close or not

approach 15-25 sets before calling it a night - act like they're all your friends
aproach hot girls (act super comfortable)
regular girls
women who look older than you
taller girls
super hot girls
just do it mother****er, ain't no problems - you're not trying to get laid, you're trying to learn game. that's it.
do it with people watching... wtf who cares

Don't just sarge single sets
Sarge any set, even if it's a mixed group

even video tape a few of them

openers:
opinion
hey . stop. (optional) i think i like you. who are you?
can i ask you a quick question - are you single? i know a guy who i think would really like you.
how much would someone have to pay you to kill a puppy? followed by how much would someone have to pay you to (make something up - strip, give an interesting stranger your phone number, "walk up to somebody and ask them these types of questions i'm asking you?" lol)

follow ups:
so where you going tonight
i'm on my way to cafe igauana actually, do you wanna come along?
you know what, you're fun, but i gotta go now, what's your phone number (then grill them)

note to self:
if i get rejected it DOESN'T MATTER.
there's no such thing as rejection
it doesn't count as a ****-up if you're still learning

dress comfortably grunged, but decent enough to get into a club - how the **** am i gonna pull that off? leave stubble, don't usea razor, use the trimmer

there's no good reason to NOT do this
DO IT mother****er
DO IT
DO IT!!!!
DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ahhhh! you're ****ing learning, it doesn't matter what they say! put yourself ahead of the game - at least be able to brag that you had the massive STONES to approach a stunningly beautiful chick, even if you got shot down.
 
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