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Look too much like her ex-bf?

Bluesteak

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Ill try to make this short. I was with a friend and he introduced me to his current fb and we were chillin at her house. I tell him to get some of her friends over here because im bored. So he tells her and she says her friend E is coming over, and that I look just like E's ex-bf.

So she comes over and we talk and shes showing IoI's and adds me on Facebook but we have to leave because its late, so they say we should come back on Friday and get drunk/play beer games, im like for sure.

So today I get a text from my friend saying that the drinking is called off and she thinks im really cute but I remind her of her ex-bf too much.... Is it basically game over for me?
 

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DJDamage

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Bluesteak said:
So today I get a text from my friend saying that the drinking is called off and she thinks im really cute but I remind her of her ex-bf too much.... Is it basically game over for me?
No its just the begining.

See if you can get together another time and isolate her.

Just the fact that you remind her of her ex is a good thing because she fvcked the ex so she can see herself fvcking you.
 

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Bluesteak said:
Ill try to make this short. I was with a friend and he introduced me to his current fb and we were chillin at her house. I tell him to get some of her friends over here because im bored. So he tells her and she says her friend E is coming over, and that I look just like E's ex-bf.
Thanks for making it short.

So she comes over and we talk and shes showing IoI's and adds me on Facebook but we have to leave because its late, so they say we should come back on Friday and get drunk/play beer games, im like for sure.
Hmm ok..

So today I get a text from my friend saying that the drinking is called off and she thinks im really cute but I remind her of her ex-bf too much.... Is it basically game over for me?
Haha well course she is going to think you are cute, you look like her Ex-BF to her. But no the game is not over for you. She is just using her 'chick logic' and applying it to this situation. To me it seems like for some reason she thinks because you look like her ex, you will act like him too, which is a bad thing well, because he is her ex and not her current BF. IDK what he did wrong but just do what you do and since your here you probably wont act like he did at all (Unless he is on here too, but what are the odds of that?? :p). Anyway just do what you do, dont act afcish or nice guyish and you should be good. If you do none of those things and this thing still gets messed up, oh well her loss. If she can't see past her old boyfriend when she looks and you, then she doesnt need to see you at all.
 
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