"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Look here!lost like a mofo am i

blinkwatt

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alright fellas let me break this down.just out of high school and i got my homies neighbor number whos a 8 out of 10.i called her up once and she was baking a cake,so i asked her if i should call her back later and i did no answer.well after a couple of days i get a message on myspace from her saying how it was shady how i didnt say hi to her when she saw me at my homies house(i was playing halo 2). and she told me that she left her phone at her friends house when i called her back.well i called her back later and we chatted for awhile. well everytime i get on aim she ims me,but when i call her and ask her if she wants to get some food she has an excuss. but she never says no.first time i called her at 10 on sunday and asked if she could go out to get food and she said she was doing hw,that one was my faul for calling that late(i dont have a curfue and i can do whatever,so i didnt even think about the time).when she said that i was like were going to get some lunch this week then,and she said ok.well i asked her late night if i was going to take her out for lunch today after school and she said she had something for softball.whats going on?she is hella laughing and stuff when i talk to her on the phone and she always responds to my text.she instant messages me when im on.but yet she wont go out to get some food etc.anyone have an idea of whats she is doing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yea as lame as it sounds, check the bible out. there really is a ton of good stuff in there and there is no point in us repeating it.
 

blinkwatt

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yeah i already found a part on it that applies to this situation thanks a bunch fellas.
 

tmpgstx

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She sounds like a flake though. With these girls everything has to be spontanious .. like 'oh .. dam, you know what? I'm hungry .. get your stank azz in my car we're going to eat etc.".

Think of it like an attention deficit disorder .. these girls can rarely focun on anything long-term, it is mostly short-term, hence their short-term relationships!
 

tmpgstx

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She sounds like a flake though. With these girls everything has to be spontanious .. like 'oh .. dam, you know what? I'm hungry .. get your stank azz in my car we're going to eat etc.".

Think of it like an attention deficit disorder .. these girls can rarely focus on anything long-term, it is mostly short-term, hence their short-term relationships!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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