"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Long distance or end it

Vincent Freeman

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I have been seeing this girl for a good amount of time now and I just found she might be moving as a result of a graduate program she got into in another state. I must admit I like her a lot, however, it's a good opportunity for her and she choose to accept. Now, to make a story short, I am little skeptical about doing the long distance thing. She said she wants to but I don't know if I exactly trust her considering I'll be here and she'll be there. Do you think I should attempt the long distance thing or should I cut my losses short and end it now before I end up getting more attached to this girl? What do you all suggest I should do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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scott44

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End it. They never work out.

She'll end up falling for some other dude, or you'll end up falling for another chick.

Waste of time. Concentrate on beeotches in your area after she's gone.

Don't end it before she leaves, though. That could stop her from opening her legs.
 

PRMoon

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LDR'S BLOW FORGET IT!!

...that's all, I'm tired of saying it over and over again.
 

Spill The Wine

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Thats a tough situation. I've been there. Had a great relationship for 1.5 years in college, talking marriage and all the other happy sh!t that goes along with it. She graduates and moves back home while I still have two semesters left.

It was a slow, painful death. You could try if you think it would be worth it but be prepared. Your chances took a major, major hit. I had an exceptional relationship and it went down like the Hindenburg once the distance really set in after a few months.
 

Swoop

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This one is really a no brainer. Experience has told me so. I been thru it, didn't work because my ex fell for another guy. My brother went thru it, same thing, girl fell for another guy. My friends went thru it, same thing, girl fell for another guy. Some of my other friends fell for another girl. If experience has taught me something is that long distance is a waste of time. Seriously, you could have been dating another girl instead of phone chat with your girl far away and got knows what she's been doing. Don't waste another minute with this. End the relationship on a good note and who knows, she might finish her studies and call you up one day and you two might continue where you left off.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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